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Stay single until you meet the one who complements you not mirrors you.

Stay single until you meet the one who doesn’t have time for games and is always honest.

Stay single until you have gotten rid of all the toxins out of your system from your last relationship. The hurt and pains you went through and the challenges life threw at you. Keep the lessons but everything else that feels heavy, it has to go.

Stay single until you know what you want in life or until you have your life together.

A relationship should enhance your life, it shouldn’t make things in your life harder.

Stay single until you meet someone who doesn’t want you to be perfect because they know every flaw you have compliments them in a way that you’re perfect for them.

Stay single until you are ready to invest your time and energy in new relationship.

Stay single until you meet the guy who keeps his word.

Stay single until you meet someone who understands that it’s going to be tough and who’s prepared to dive in anyway.

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Stay single until you meet a guy who is sure of you and never makes you doubt how he feels.

Stay single until you meet the one whose friend’s already know about before you meet them.

The one who respects you and treats you better than anyone before.

The one who says I love you first just because he wants you to know.

The guy who says, “text me when you’re home safe,” and stays up until he knows you are.

Stay single until you meet the one who makes sure you walk to the inside of the sidewalk away from the road.

Stay single until you meet someone who isn’t afraid to debate for good reasons or just for fun. Someone who loves your mind.

Stay single until you meet the one who doesn’t bottles up his feelings and isn’t afraid to fight for you.

Stay single until you meet the one who prays for you, and prays with you.

Stay single until you meet the one who drops everything if you need him. He’s the man who puts your needs first, over everyone else’s (including his own).

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Stay single until you meet the one who never stops trying to keep you.

Because he knows getting you wasn’t the hard part but constantly giving you a reason to stay is what you deserve.

Stay single until you meet the one you can ugly cry with, and have no shame.

Stay single until you meet the one who thinks you’re beautiful when you cry, and keeps reminding you of this while they wipe away your tears.

Stay single until you meet the one who strives to do better in their life, because they want to take care of you.

Stay single until you meet the one who has goals and dreams of their own.

Stay single until you meet someone who will give you honest advice about your choice of clothes.

Stay single until you meet the person who makes you laugh until it hurts.

The one who heals any pain they didn’t cause from the past.

But more than that makes you forget about it.

The one you look at and in their eyes you see the next 50 years.

The one you miss before you even say goodbye.

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Stay single until you meet a man who makes you want to the best version of yourself.

The one who knows when to apologize when he’s wrong.

Stay single until you meet the one who will do anything to see you smile.Weather it be liking your Instagram pics and/or clicking on all the ads in your blog.

The person who gets you flowers just because.

The one whose presence makes you feel a little more whole.

The one who redefines what you thought love in the past was.

Stay single until you meet someone who proves themselves to you. Not everyone in this world is who they say they are, or genuine in the way that they may seem.

Stay single until you meet a man who tells you his secrets. He values being emotionally close so he shares pieces of himself with you that he doesn’t with anyone else.

The one who asks for your advice because he values your opinions.

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Stay single until you meet the one who not only introduces you to their family but makes you feel apart of it.

Stay single until you meet the who shares their heart with you (and food).

Stay single until you meet the one who can read through the bullshit you’re selling to the world and knows when to just hug you without saying anything at all.

The one who you can share your secrets with because you trust he won’t share it with anybody else.

Stay single until you meet the one who feels like home and you realize its never been about the place.

The one who holds your hand shamelessly and will kiss you in public.

Stay single until you meet the one who calls you back when you hang up. Because love is love.

Stay single  until you meet the one who loves you unconditionally.

Stay single until you meet the one who accepts all of you and you do too.

Until then,
Stay Single

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50 thoughts on “Stay single until

  • September 3, 2017 at 11:11 pm
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    LOVE your blog!! It’s beautifully laid out, your pictures are spectacular and the message you project to your readers is really inspiring! Your blog really speaks to me as a young, single professional woman, so thank you! x

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    • September 4, 2017 at 12:33 am
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      Ahhhh it makes me happy when i read comment like yours. Am glad my blog relates to you; it means a lot.Thanks much x

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  • September 3, 2017 at 11:22 pm
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    I see so many people going through relationship after relationship just because they think they need to be in one. Take your time and enjoy.

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  • September 4, 2017 at 12:04 am
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    Brilliant advice – I see so many people settling for someone who’s not right for them because they think it’s time to do so.

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    • September 4, 2017 at 12:35 am
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      Thanks Tori. You make a good point too.

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  • September 4, 2017 at 4:06 am
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    interesting! and it always make me curious why mostly women ponder like this! i rarely see articles about men talking about singlehood like we do!!! http://www.crayonized.com

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  • September 4, 2017 at 5:39 am
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    What a positive message! These are things that I would tell my own daughters about choosing the right partner.

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  • September 4, 2017 at 6:22 am
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    Gosh I have been single for so many years just because I had this list. I have to say that I have found the one that is worth the try.

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  • September 4, 2017 at 11:42 am
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    As a woman who’s been married for 15 years and I love that list. Everything is just so true. No need to rush.

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  • September 4, 2017 at 8:52 pm
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    What a great post!! I really agree with every word you said 🙂 Thank you for sharing with us <3

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  • September 5, 2017 at 12:00 am
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    This is so true! Thankfully I was able to meet someone that complimented me in so many ways at a young age! We will be married 11 years next month.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 2:52 am
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    I’ve had a lot of conversations with people about staying single, but most seem to dislike the idea. Personally, I think that it is unhealthy to constantly be dating. Great post.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 3:22 am
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    I love this and this is exactly what I did. I got out of a long relationship and waited to take care of me for a while, then I found the love of my life. Beautiful post and advice that all of us should listen to.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 3:25 am
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    Whoa, that’s quite the impressive list! I agree with almost everything you have listed. It’s true that you must wait til all the signs are there, it’s better for the long run.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 4:41 am
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    I love this post! It’s so true that people are afraid of being single, and go from bad relationship to worse.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 4:51 am
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    I love the layout that you did. Your blog is so nice and inviting. I was single for a while then god place the love of my life into my hands.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 5:55 am
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    Often i see people – so afraid of being single, so they get themselves in nightmare situations just not to be alone. I agree with all your points. so Stay single until you find THE ONE!

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  • September 5, 2017 at 6:07 am
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    |barefootveronicaluna|

    Great post! I totally agree with this! Being single is a time to truly dedicate to yourself, know who you are, learn to love yourself first.

    Thanks for sharing!

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  • September 5, 2017 at 7:53 am
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    This is beautiful. I just wish more people would listen to this advice instead of just being with someone because they’re afraid to be alone. I love this 🙂

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  • September 5, 2017 at 10:41 am
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    stay single until you find that person you don’t wanna stay away from #suchlovelypost thanks for sharing

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  • September 5, 2017 at 11:41 am
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    Such a lovely post! Agree with everything you listed and I’m happy that I’ve found someone like that. Thanks for sharing xx

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  • September 5, 2017 at 11:43 am
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    I’m so sure that’s the kind of love you need to wait for. It’s not shy or hesitant. It should never feel like it’s something you need to force. It should feel like home.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 12:57 pm
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    Great article. Love is tricky and settling should never be an option. Thank you for this.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 2:03 pm
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    Wow! These are some seriously deep words and I agree. Stay single until you meet the one who you know with all your heart that truly loves you. You deserve to be loved with the truest affection that the world has to offer.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 2:06 pm
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    I like how you view this topic. For me relationship needs strategy and must not rely on destiny, because we are the engineer of our life.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 2:14 pm
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    One of the biggest challenges single people face is having the confidence to take time to understand themselves and choose the right partner. Always remind yourself about what you like and what you’re good at. So you don’t need other’s approval and you’ll feel more confident in your choices.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 2:17 pm
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    I really love this. It seems like a lot of girls feel the need to have a boyfriend just to have one. I believe you should find the person that is right for you not just right now.

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  • September 5, 2017 at 3:11 pm
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    I LOVE this post! I had a bad marriage that lasted almost 8 years and left me so broken and scarred, that I honestly thought I could never find love or be happy with anyone ever again. I mistakenly fell for someone else who mirrored me, but wasn’t my match. And it was so heartbreaking. Then I met him. The one who was also broken, yet so whole and so giving. Here we are years later, and I could not be more in love now than I was before. I honestly think that its better to wait…

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  • September 5, 2017 at 4:34 pm
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    Beautiful post, I feel lucky that I have been happily married for 25 years to my best friend. Everything you say is true

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  • September 5, 2017 at 6:34 pm
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    Truer words have never been spoken Anna and he will be worth waiting for too.

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  • September 6, 2017 at 3:28 am
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    Hmm this one is a bit of a stretch – “the one who can read through the bullshit you’re selling to the world and knows when to just hug you without saying anything at all”! I guess you mean it metaphorically, because finding guys who are this sensitive is not easy for sure! 😆

    Bottomline is, don’t get into a relationship for the sake of it. There’s no point! Learn to love yourself first, and the rest will fall in place (saying this to anyone who’s reading my comment).

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  • September 6, 2017 at 1:37 pm
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    Timing plays part in a relationship. You habe to br ready & i agree with you on honesty. Playing games is a waste of time. Great post! 😊

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  • September 6, 2017 at 1:37 pm
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    I love these! My favorite is the one about clicking all the ads on your blog. 😂 Adding this as a requirement! 🤣🤣

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  • September 6, 2017 at 4:24 pm
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    I think we cannot succeed in a relationship until we truly know who we are and are content with being by our self. A relationship should never be a crutch but a uniting of two souls who can function together and alone. I’ll say stay single until you meet an equally whole and content soul. 🙂

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  • September 7, 2017 at 5:27 am
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    What a wonderfully written poem. It is better to be single than to keep one’s heart occupied with someone who is not the right person for you

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  • September 7, 2017 at 9:56 pm
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    Travel the world, be you! have fun and enjoy life, life is too short!

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  • September 8, 2017 at 12:09 pm
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    One of the biggest challenges single people face is having the confidence to take time to understand themselves and choose the right partner. Always remind yourself about what you like and what you’re good at. So you don’t need other’s approval and you’ll feel more confident in your choices.

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  • September 9, 2017 at 9:58 pm
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    I absolutely love this!! I’m 34 and have been single for 2 years, since my daughter was born. I dated her father for two years, which I just had a feeling I shouldn’t have, but I still did. Before him, I was single for 3 years! I will never just settle or be with someone that I am not 500% confident will compliment me and my life, rather than making it harder. If that means that I am forever single, I am alright with that lol. I have myself, my kids, my family and friends that complete me enough for now. 😉 Thank you for this reminder!

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  • September 23, 2017 at 7:02 pm
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    Amen to that… I agree with every bit. But this one has to be my favourite “Stay single until you know what you want in life or until you have your life together.” So damn true. It’s actually so healthy to be single!

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  • September 24, 2017 at 11:49 pm
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    Love this! It is so worth it to wait for the right person!

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  • September 25, 2017 at 12:18 am
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    Great advice! I wrote a very similar post recently.

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  • September 27, 2017 at 6:02 pm
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    Great post! I’m a firm believer that someone should compliment you, not complete you. We should be whole on our own but be with someone who understands us and compliments us in the right ways

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    • September 28, 2017 at 5:38 pm
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      Absolutely Jem. Hope you find someone like that soon 🙂 Thanks for dropping by!

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  • October 16, 2017 at 9:55 am
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    Nice blog nice post.

    I’m so glad I stayed single before I met my fiancé.

    I met him knowing exactly who I was and where I wanted to go. And he is my perfect partner to start this journey together.

    💜

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